Back to my coworker that asked me about letting go--- I was caught off guard when she asked this, and thought WTF? Where have you been for the last four years? I never let anything go... and then it dawned on me. Since my husband didn't have to shuffle out of the office after coming to say bye because I physically hurt him or gave him the what- for in front of the rest of the women in the aisle, she must have thought I was either a saint, or just really dumb. " How can you just get over being mad at him so fast?" Well, no one said I wasn't still irritated with him. I was. But, he was traveling almost 800 miles away in his truck for his job, and I learned a long time ago to never leave someone or let someone leave you while either of you are pissed off. Life is too short for that shit. And the reason I was mad at him wasn't because he had done some inexcusable, life- altering thing. I told her, it wasn't worth being mad at him anymore. It was affecting my whole day, so it was just time to get the hell over it. I was being bitchy and over-reactive, and I even I couldn't stand it. Crying in the bathroom stall after realizing what a jerk I was kind of cured me.
Good luck. If nothing else, see if your husband's boss can't send him out of town for a while... I hear distance makes the heart grow fonder!! ~ Richelle